Intravert
What makes a person feel unwanted?. May be it is for many reasons like, when he/she felt not listened,not consulted,not heard,not valued and most importantly 'taken for granted'.
May be he/she tried to hide the feelings like anger,fear,pain,etc., coverup their feelings with humor. They may mask their feelings under brave face. The irony is when others see these kind of people,they think the person is brave enough to deal any kind of situation and they may avoid support.
People often think these type person as a powerful and courageous but truth is they are as fearful as others are. They also not know the reality of what makes people go away from them. They fall in the category of storyteller or enacter, people fedup with their stories and try to avoid, as they can easily see what is lacking in that type of person.
The tragedy is these kind of people are loners,even with group of people they never feel the closeness. they feel lonely and separate from the group. It doesn't mean that they avoid people, they love to be with people . But don't know how to be with people,as love to be with themselves.
People often considered these type of persons as straight faced, or egoistic. The more they love to be with people, the more they are separated.
May be he/she tried to hide the feelings like anger,fear,pain,etc., coverup their feelings with humor. They may mask their feelings under brave face. The irony is when others see these kind of people,they think the person is brave enough to deal any kind of situation and they may avoid support.
People often think these type person as a powerful and courageous but truth is they are as fearful as others are. They also not know the reality of what makes people go away from them. They fall in the category of storyteller or enacter, people fedup with their stories and try to avoid, as they can easily see what is lacking in that type of person.
The tragedy is these kind of people are loners,even with group of people they never feel the closeness. they feel lonely and separate from the group. It doesn't mean that they avoid people, they love to be with people . But don't know how to be with people,as love to be with themselves.
People often considered these type of persons as straight faced, or egoistic. The more they love to be with people, the more they are separated.
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